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Are you the more dominant or submissive one in the relationship? How do you feel about that?
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I do like to be in control of things I can't lie, it's like a sick fetish I guess. In the bedroom I love to make my partner completely submissive but having her on top of me smacking her ass up on down on my balls while she strokes the shit out of my dick is something I could never part with. It's weird cuz I still like it one way when you saddle-up!
Definitely the more dominant in terms of character, on a general day to day basis...I am of course a queen, but have areas in my life where I choose and like to be submissive.
I think I am more dominant. I don't mind most of the time but if he doesn't like it I can totally change. I would like to be passive more.
I think it's a balance. we both are dominating on different things. But it's a good kind, it's more of a caring thing rather than "down your throat"?
Agreed !! ((:
Male, 36-40 years, Dating | Feb 06, 2013
Male, 36-40 years, Dating | Feb 06, 2013
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Female, 36-40 years, Dating | Feb 06, 2013
Female, 36-40 years, Dating | Feb 06, 2013
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I think it's a nice balance. We both can be doms and subs. I say a nice role reversal.
In sex I'm more submissive. In general I'm probably more dominant, and I actually don't want to be, lol. :-p
Yeah, I am the opposite at times, the same in others.
Male, 41-50 years, Married, AZ, US | Jan 29, 2013
Male, 41-50 years, Married, AZ, US | Jan 29, 2013
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I would say yes because I am the man and I feel I am responsible for everything around the house and the protection of my family. I don't mind at all
Creo q aqui ambos tenemos un poco de eso
Well he thinks I am the dominant one but he definitely is!!
Both it's give and take.
I think the country mouse is naturally submissive and the city mouse is naturally dominant. But there are times where we exchange rolls in my opinion.
And the role reversal is very sexy on the country mouse.
Female, 41-50 years, Married, MD, US | Jan 24, 2013
Female, 41-50 years, Married, MD, US | Jan 24, 2013
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submissive by choice but dominant when needed
I think physically he is more dominant, but emotionally i am. Theres an almost perfect balance bt the 2 in our relationship.
I have multiple personalitys so I enjoy the submissive role a little more. Don't really get anywhere with her being dominate.
I'm more submissive as a woman should be to her husband, but it's give and take. We are both equal and respect each other.
Female, <20 years, Dating, GA, US | Jan 24, 2013