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Are you the more dominant or submissive one in the relationship? How do you feel about that?
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It's not equal in our household. I'm submissive because my opinion doesn't matter
I tend to be the submissive, but I don't mind. Occasionally, I'll take charge but it's not a normal thing, which should make it more special.
He is a bit more dominant then me. I think thats, or just a bit more is enough. I dont need to be in control, but i dont want him to take care of everything on his own either ..
It is important that both of us knowing when to be dominant and when to be submissive. I think I am not dominant though.
Male or Female, 26-30 years, Dating | Jun 08, 2013
Male or Female, 26-30 years, Dating | Jun 08, 2013
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Dominate
DOMONANT. CALL ME DRAGON LADY
I am the more dominant one usually. Sometimes, I just want to be the one to lay back and let her take charge - of date night, in bed, in decision making. That would be glorious - and would really take the pressure off.
I'm more dominate
I'm not sure, I would like to think its neither, not about power
We just actually talked about this recently. She has been the dominate one lately. It's been bothering both of us. I'm going to start taking a bit more control. It'll help both of us be happier.
In our relationship we see each other as equals. We don't allow one to say I love you more because it isn't true, we love equally, we are partners, everything is 50/50 the way it should be. However in the bedroom it's a much different story... ;)
Exactly. We are the true definition of equal! But you did say it best that the bedroom is definitely different ;)
Male, 41-50 years, Dating | Apr 06, 2013
Male, 41-50 years, Dating | Apr 06, 2013
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Niet altijd soms moet het en dat is anders om ook zo
I'm more dominant. But in bed he is.
Not sure we have worked this one out we are both used to being dominant hmmmm
outside the bedroom it's 50/50 for the most part but inside the bedroom it's a different story.
I'm the dominated one and she is the submissive one with out a doubt.
I'm the dominated one and she is the submissive one with out a doubt.
Submissive. I will never be the dominant one. I always come to the conclusion that I'm in the wrong and that I should be sorry.
