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Are you the more dominant or submissive one in the relationship? How do you feel about that?
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Dominant. Feel normal
The more submissive one, not by choice, but because I don't feel I get the opportunity to bring my strengths & knowledge into the relationship as much as I'd like. But I don't want to be the more dominant one either. I like it when he makes decisions & takes action.
Submissive, but I always let him know what I'm thinking and feeling
Sometimes I'm the more dominant one, especially at the beginning of our relationship. As we've grown, he has become more dominant and I have become less dominant and submissive to only him. So, I guess Its 50/50.
I feel you're the more dominate one in the relationship. You have strong opinions and like to be in control. Which is okay by me, I like that trait in you. I tend to be a little submissive. You have better decision making skills so I tend to let you make a lot of decisions. Which can be a strain on our relationship. I need to make and help with more decisions. And most of all support you %100 in the decisions you and make.
Submissive but i love it
I'm submissive in and out of the bedroom, I prefer it that way. The only issue I have is when my needs become ignored or forgotten about for months on end.
both
And he is both as well I'd say
We have a very balanced (I believe healthy) power dynamic.
I wouldn't say either of us are submissive, but in some areas one of us kind of takes the lead and sometimes the other does. I like it a lot.
And he is both as well I'd say
We have a very balanced (I believe healthy) power dynamic.
I wouldn't say either of us are submissive, but in some areas one of us kind of takes the lead and sometimes the other does. I like it a lot.
A little of both for both of us
I am the dominant one, and its fine with me.
I think my boyfriend and I are a mix. We possess both submissive and dominant qualities. I think he's only slightly more dominant me (SLIGHTLY), but we tend to trade off. It's a really good balance that I think is healthy in most relationships.
He's more dominant, I don't mind
I bounce between both
Im definitely submissive in most aspects of our relationship. And i like it, i love when he dominates me and is "the man". So sexy
Very equal but when it comes to sex i guess i'm the dominant one. And she just loves it..... I hope.....
