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Are you the more dominant or submissive one in the relationship? How do you feel about that?
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I am generally submissive because I like to please her and treat her like a queen, and also because I know she won't take advantage of my acquiescence.
I think I have a tendency to be more dominant in our relationship, but I always make sure that I check with my partner before making big decisions or plans. In the bedroom, we take turns taking the lead...and respect is always in the back of my mind. Even when I am playing dominant, I would never do anything that he would be uncomfortable with because I love him so much! He treats me like a queen, and for that I treat him like my king (and sometimes my man- servant ;) )
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In my opinion, there should be no "dominant" or "submissive" partner; both should be equal. Neither of us would ever let the other boss them around; we tend to make decisions by communicating our desires to each other. I think it helps that both of us are really easygoing, so generally if he or I want to do something, then the other one will usually be up for it too.
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Hmmm...I do not think of our relationship in such terms. I think I have both traits. Although I can come off more as a dominant type of person.
Because he is a people pleaser I am afraid I am the dominant one. I wish to
Be equal
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I see us as equals.
Vice versa...:)
Neither. Fairly equal power dynamic
submissive, I hope. like it should be
Equal
neither
Depends where... hehehehe.. :)
I'm more submissive. She's definitely the dominant one and I wouldn't change it. At least not in the bedroom lol
