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![Male, 36-40 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_m_xsmall.png)
Dying alone and leaving loved ones behind
![Female, 41-50 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
Losing my enthusiasm for things- getting cynical.
Dying alone.
Dying alone.
![Male, 36-40 years, Dating, ENG, GB](/img2/other_pic_m_xsmall.png)
You could never be accused of losing your enthusiasm for things :)
Male, 36-40 years, Dating, ENG, GB | Oct 04, 2015
Male, 36-40 years, Dating, ENG, GB | Oct 04, 2015
![Female, 41-50 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
so I could die alone then?... ;-)
Female, 41-50 years, Dating | Oct 04, 2015
Female, 41-50 years, Dating | Oct 04, 2015
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![Female, 41-50 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
My partner no longer wanting to be with me.
![Male or Female, 26-30 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_b_xsmall.png)
That there will be nothing afterwards. That everything will become the nothingness that it seems was before we were born. This scares me, despite the fact that I have no control over it. We have never known anything but our own consciousness,and to think of that ceasing to exist forever,is incomprehensible and that scares me.
The universe is so big and are seemingly so small- I feel like life and consciousness are it's greatest mystery.
The universe is so big and are seemingly so small- I feel like life and consciousness are it's greatest mystery.
![Female, 36-40 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
What scares me the most is health changes that happen with age. Also, if I'm getting older - that means my parents are getting older which scares me.
![Male or Female, 26-30 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_b_xsmall.png)
Dying
![Male, 31-35 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_m_xsmall.png)
Not having u
![Female, 31-35 years, Dating, AR, US](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
Being old and ugly 😭
![Male or Female, 26-30 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_b_xsmall.png)
Losing my parents coz they'll be growing up too
![Female, 41-50 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
He is my best friend. I would be very sad if we were not still best friends at 90.
![Female, 36-40 years, Married, TX, US](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
Not being able to do things that I want to do.
![Female, 31-35 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
The only part about getting old that scares me is losing my health, both physically and mentally.
![Male or Female, 26-30 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_b_xsmall.png)
would never happen!!!!
![Female, 31-35 years, Dating, NH, US](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
The fact that it puts a countdown of the amount of time I am able to spend with loved ones. But that in itself makes me more thankful everyday for the time I do receive.
![Female, 41-50 years, Dating, KS, US](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
Dying for sure. I love life and this world. I don't want to leave it or the ones I love.