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Are you a saver or a spender? How about your partner?
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I take after my mother -- I get more worried about money than I probably need to, so I usually consider pretty heavily how much I actually /need/ something before I buy it. The upside of this is that it alleviates my guilt on the rare occasion that I do decide to splurge on something nice. As for my partner, I will say that he seems less worried about money than I am, but he's not overly wasteful, as far as I can tell.
I am a spender I'd be okay with giving my whole check to my sweetie and letting him take care of all the finances. I could do better with saving but basically I'd follow his lead cause I know he's better with that kind of stuff.
I used to be a spender well I guess I am in a sense. I travel a lot when I could be using that money to save. I try to be conscious about what I'm spending, so the bills will get paid first, but I want nice things (like a new motorcycle and car) so saving is the only way.
Male, 41-50 years, Dating | Oct 22, 2012
Male, 41-50 years, Dating | Oct 22, 2012
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Like my hubby says. I'm a spender too but I'm better at saving when the money needs saving :)
It depends. On the kids, spend. On me~ save
I'm a saver but the boyfriend is a spender!! I tell him to save but he doesn't listen to me:(
Saver unless its something i really want or it's for my kids.
I'm a big saver. I feel it is partly a good thing because i am responsible with my money. But i also try to remember that on important moments a couple of dollars do not make a difference an money should never be an issue for a fight.
We're both a bit of both
I love spending but when I have to I stop I think he's the same or maybe more a saver kind of guy
Im both, I always save a bit, no matter what, but I also tend to spend a part of that saved money, but on important things
Like hot shoes to be as tall as your hot boyfriend and make out on the dance floor ;)
Male, 31-35 years, Dating, DC, US | Oct 04, 2012
Male, 31-35 years, Dating, DC, US | Oct 04, 2012
jajaja siii obvioo
Female, 26-30 years, Dating | Oct 05, 2012
Female, 26-30 years, Dating | Oct 05, 2012
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I'm a saver. I like to shop around when I buy something larger, and I like finding deals on more regular things like groceries or whatever.
I'm definitely a saver, and so is he. BUT we do like the finer things in life, and we tend to splurge once in a while in order to have the best experience we can together.
ahhhh were both bad and good lol but she is the most saver and I am the most spender lol
Lately, I've been more of a spender, especially with holidays. However, I've also got my savings built up to last me
bem eu sou pessima nessa area mais não sou gastadora
