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Do nice guys (and gals) really finish last? How so?


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Pienso que hay que tener momentos apasionados y exitantes


I think these people sometimes come last because they don't want to screw up a good thing and more aggressively pursue a specific friend...


si oprque son aburridos.. he he los buenos siempre aburren! algo de malicia y sexosin siempre es necesitado y los buenos suelen no tranmitir eso! por eso teerminan al final o siendo poco atractivos ;)
Jijiji ji concuerdo
Female, 41-50 years, Domestically Partnered, JAL, MX | Jun 06, 2012

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Well, I've always been quiet, withdrawn. Enjoyed living in my own world, but you start missing out on a lot like that.



"nice"- such a non-word! It is all about perspective. One can only "finish last" by their own standards, so it is dependant entirely on what one wants. So, the statement is far to general. On the other hand I do believe that people who are kind and generous get used by the less scrupulous.


I know they do - we spend time trying to make others happy and lose our own way.


No



Not nice guys, but shy guys. One of the best decisions of my life was to not be shy with a girl I liked. 5 years later were still dating and we're in love. It's perfect.


No. Nice I am all in favor of. Emotionally bland I am not in favor of.


I can say to some extent bcuz my husband was the nicest, caring man I've ever met. He has treated me with the upmost respect and from the very beginning I gave him a hard time bcuz I honestly didn't feel worthy. It took me almost a year for me to even consider being his gf but he hung in there lol
I understand about not feeling worthy, but I let my guard down enough to marry the man 4 months after I married him an I've never looked back, an neither has he!
Female, >50 years, Married, OH, US | Jun 08, 2012

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Yes, because they make sure their girls finish first. ;)


I would say yes every girl like a bad guy but that does get old after awhile then they realize as they get older, they get Fed Up with the Foolish Games.


No it's how you handle all obstacles as they come ur way it's easy to say let's get married, many ppl do not realize how to just take life as it is suppose to happen don't be in such a race!


Ideally they finish at the same time.


No my bf is a awesome guy



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