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Do nice guys (and gals) really finish last? How so?


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Maybe in some peoples eyes. I think it's all perspective! Life is different for everyone... Some nice guys make out, some don't... again it's all perspective...


I believe they are the tortoise in the race and will win in the end. Although they don't get ahead fast, they will eventually come out ahead.


Really it depends on the person


In my opinion, only in the short run... when girls are younger they seem to "go for" the bad boy image.. when they realize they have made a mistake and grow up, they look to nice guys.


I think it holds some merit to it, but I don't believe that it's always true. "Nice" guys finish last if they aren't assertive or confident enough to reach out and grab for something that they want. Unfortunately, oftentimes there is a level of respect that while being admirable, is also a deterrent from them asserting themselves toward relationships. But my wife and I are both "nice," and we DEFINITELY won in the end!


Usually but they catch up


The nice guy may not get the girl first.. But the bad boy never lasts, and who do we turn to? The nice guy. With patience the nice guy wins!


I don't know... o_O


Yes because they're being too nice and ppl take advantage the nice ppl end up hurt and the ones that don't give a fuck end up with the prize until karma gets them


I honestly believe that it depends on the persons maturity in order to really appreciate a good guy/gal. When I was younger I loved the bad boys and wasn't looking for a husband. But now I have a good guy and I am so grateful!!!


Idk if this is what the question is asking but i always finish before my girlfriend


This saying refers to people that want to please everyone by not offending and being nice , yes they finish last in live , not being 100 percent honest in any relationship disrespects it and the outcome is not good.


Am I nice? I got u❤
Not very nice also
Female, 36-40 years, Dating, NSW, AU | Jun 04, 2012

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If you only want to romance and the sex, then yes. In a dedicated and long term relationship, nice guys leave others in the dust!


Eu sou um nice guy e, com essa namorada fantástica que tenho, eu cheguei lá na frente...



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