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Do nice guys (and gals) really finish last? How so?
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Theres a difference to being nice and a pushover or slave i find pushovers so un attractive and theres no adventure
Yes but as people mature they end up finishing
The squeaky wheel gets oiled.
Maybe.. But at least they're in tune with their conscience and that, I believe, makes them happier people~ :)
Oh 100% they are easily taken advantage of & taken for granted
Yep defo
Not in my Fiancée's case. He was super nice when I was surrounded by douche bags and he's the one that won my heart.
I can't imagine that. I'm a pretty nice guy and I feel like I'm in the lead with my wife at my side.
People finish as they are ready to finish.. Slow and steady
I'm definitely labeled as nice and I don't feel like I'm finishing last. I do feel that my niceness is taken advantage of sometimes.
I think people who are so "nice" that they can't stand up for themselves will finish last. You need to assert your own needs, or you'll never get what you want and/or need! But if you are kind and know your own boundaries, I think you'll do well for yourself.
Yup. Always
Nice to a point, but you have to stand up for yourself, and your special somebody. That's what wins...I think.
They are usually picked last since they are quite and not as in your face as the bad ones.
Yeah defo!
