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Do nice guys (and gals) really finish last? How so?
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It's a matter of perspective. My boyfriend is one of the nicest, most genuine men I've ever met. He's one of the good ones. You'd have to ask him how he feels about whether he finishes last or not.
I don't think so.
Nope I think niceness and honestly ALWAYS wins the race even it it takes longer.
Depends on how u look at it cuz different ppl see it differently
Not always! But you might get stepped on along the way!
Not always, but ive learned that sometimes you gotta be ruthless to get ahead.
Never. A truly genuine person will eventually find someone that appreciates their effort. Being nice doesn't make you a push over, it doesn't make you weak, or hold you back. Being nice allows others to be open and comfortable with you.
I married the nicest most handsome man on the planet so nothing before him matters
Yes we are always trampled over and taken advantage of.
No
Depends, how fast are they running?
Nice guys Marty the girl, who now has baggage from all the bad guys :p so, I guess it's a win?
Tell the truth with love. Sometimes people think that I'm nice sometimes they don't it just depends on where the person is standing.
Yes, but the loser paves the way for us.
Yes nice guys finish last because we always put others before ourselves
Male, 41-50 years, Dating, NV, US | Jan 26, 2013