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Do nice guys (and gals) really finish last? How so?


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Most times they do cause society has bad boys painted as being more exciting but a lot of drama comes with that too


Depends on the company you keep! I'm nice but I finally found someone deserving of me... Just can't be nice to everyone.


For the most part I would say yes. Women seem bored if you are too nice. At first it may be great but over time they will get bored. Or you can always be in the "friend" role. I guess the gist of it is no one seems to want what they already have or can have. Gotta be somewhat of a challenge.


No
U need to have friends/a partner that loves u for u
Like my bf:)
He's always there for me and he loves me for me
(Well I think so lol)


It's polite to finish last ;)


Yeah
No not always
Female, 36-40 years, Dating | Dec 28, 2012

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Well I think I'm what you would call a "nice guy" and I can honestly say I feel like I've finished first. So the answer would have to be no.


Yes I believe they do....... I always make sure she cums multiple times before I finish ;)


That's just a defeating self image of ones self. Just discouragement. So I disagree.


I was told that was the reason I am with my guy; basically I'm not a good person.
But I believe you can be a nice and loving person without being a complete pushover and letting ppl step all over you bc you have no true opinion and ideas. You spend too mch time agreeing and being nice to everyone, no one knows the true you.
Wtf u finished last so the guy your with now is the only guy left over? That's so messed up
Male, 31-35 years, Dating | Dec 19, 2012

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Dunno


Yes we have hearts


Of course not. The guys I see that always have lots of women around them are the guys that are sweet & polite. Acting like a jerk only attracts slags with no self-esteem.


Not really niceness and goodness does pay off in the long run 😘


No



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