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Which do you think is more important for a happy relationship, sharing the household chores or a good sex life? Why?
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Both it's frustrating when the house is mess and I'm the only one trying to keep it clean and therefore there will be no sex
Live in peace hahaha seriously, both.
Great sex life! For me having a great sex life I'll be happy to do extra things for her. Heck for a great sex life I'll happily learn how to knit a sweater and I'll love it if it's something she would enjoy with me. :)
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Female, 41-50 years, Married, VA, US | May 28, 2012
Female, 41-50 years, Married, VA, US | May 28, 2012
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Both... I get stressed out if I'm the only one doing house work. But I have to have a strong sex life in order to deal with the stress of life.
Balance is the key to any great relationship, so a good sex life and good teamwork on the chores is ideal. If I had to pick one or the other, I would say the chores, because they are on going and sex will fade, it's just a fact of life
Sex doesn't have to fade!!! The chores can wait. It's not like sex is 24/7...u keep it strong, the relationship stays strong. When you're not having sex, clean the house! My hubby and I do it all WITH 4 kids. The only thing we lack is MORE alone time away from home. We always find time for the bedroom and the dishes & laundry are always done!
Female, 41-50 years, Married, VA, US | May 28, 2012
Female, 41-50 years, Married, VA, US | May 28, 2012
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Both can't have sex on trash............
They should be equally important. Only way to co-exist harmoniously!
Both. A good balance can go a long ways.
Definitely a good sex life...but if he can dust with each stroke, I won't complain!! :D
Both! No sex in a dirty house for me! So in the middle of cleaning, I wouldn't mind getting a little dirty!
LOVING this answer baby I could not have said it any better.
Female, 41-50 years, Engaged, Gay, MS, US | Jul 07, 2012
Female, 41-50 years, Engaged, Gay, MS, US | Jul 07, 2012
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If one spouse is upset/angry/frustrated/annoyed with doing all of the household chores alone would clearly have a negative effect on the sex life. A strong and healthy sex life is essential in a marriage to help keep the couple together. It puts both spouses in better moods
Good question.. Cause if the house is not clean I won't enjoy good sex....
Both I can't cook and clean on my own and I really need a clean home to be happy .
Sex is also important but I hate it when it feels like were having sex just to have it . There are nights when I just want to lay next to her and watch tv
Sex is also important but I hate it when it feels like were having sex just to have it . There are nights when I just want to lay next to her and watch tv
Relationship first! The most important part. A man that's fucking another woman while his wife is at home waiting to offer her little reward hahaha fuck you:)
