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Which do you think is more important for a happy relationship, sharing the household chores or a good sex life? Why?
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A good sex while doing chores ;)
Both! I think everything should be equal and fun.
Can't you combine them?
That would be hot
Male, 41-50 years, Dating, VA, US | Jun 23, 2013
Male, 41-50 years, Dating, VA, US | Jun 23, 2013
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We share the household chores, I try to anyways lol. And we have a great sex life, we help each other out in both subjects and it keeps us happy. Did I mention the sex was amazing??
So I think they are both important, she loves it when I clean up the place, and there's things she does for me I really love!!
Male, 31-35 years, Dating | Apr 27, 2013
Male, 31-35 years, Dating | Apr 27, 2013
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Wait. What happened to both? Because I think one begets the other. Because let's be honest. I'm more likely to be happy enough to up the sex ante if I get help in the house and I'm pretty sure the opposite is also true.
I would prefer both of them ..
I agree except for sex I can always have sex with her
Both. It's important to keep balance in everything. I think the best is to talk about it and figure out a way that works for both of us - in sex and in chores etc.
Both. Because its fair and will keep us both happy.
I think sharing the chorse will lead to a good sex life, but good sex life first. we can always get chores done later or done for us, loving eachother and expressing it is more important.
It just can't work without both. I agree, without warmth, closeness.. sexy time, we begin to grow apart or cold. In the same token having to carry all the weight of the managing a home can create resentment. Guys and even some women laugh, but most days is like working 5 different jobs. Not complaining, I love being able to spend so much time with my family, but working together really makes a difference. Anyone will go crazy without "me" time
Female, <20 years, Domestically Partnered | May 15, 2013
Female, <20 years, Domestically Partnered | May 15, 2013
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Household chores can be made fun. There's always time to clean, and do things around the house. But when my girl gets to feelin rowdy, I can't EVER resist her. She's the sexiest thing I've ever seen!!!
Sharing the chores because if you don't, then she's pissed off and then no sex
Exactly!! ;D
Female, 31-35 years, Dating, VA, US | Jun 24, 2013
Female, 31-35 years, Dating, VA, US | Jun 24, 2013
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A good sex life because if that is healthy then I am more willing to do household chores. :)
I think they're both equally important- if you share the household chores anyway, you'll have more time and energy for other things; especially when it comes to making each other feeling good in the bedroom.
Both.. But hmm that's tricky...
