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Which do you think is more important for a happy relationship, sharing the household chores or a good sex life? Why?
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Good sex life would definitely be first. A defined chore list instead of nagging or always relying on the other person to so something would be helpful as well.
Good sex life. If thats functioning properly everything else falls in line imho.
Sex is my preference, however I have no issues at all taking care of what needs to b done around the household.
I think both are equally important
Female, >50 years, Married | Mar 16, 2013
Female, >50 years, Married | Mar 16, 2013
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BOTH!!! Nothing like a woman who's good with a broom, and can clean up in the bedroom, no what I mean.
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Female, 41-50 years, Dating | Mar 25, 2013
Female, 41-50 years, Dating | Mar 25, 2013
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Both cause clean house then we mess it up then work at it later lol
Sharing everything, doing things together, keeps the bond strong, making love, intimacy is about showing love, trust and caring xx
Sex life is more important. Not that I don't mind some help around the house, our sex life allows more intimate moments to share and really be with each other
Sex, please
I would say sex life over chores but I think a strong relationship outside of the bedroom is just as essential as sex. They go hand in hand. You feel good about yourself in all arenas and it makes the sex even better
Female, 26-30 years, Married | Apr 10, 2013
Female, 26-30 years, Married | Apr 10, 2013
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There are plenty of couples who don't need a good sex life to be happy together. I think it's important, once both parties are ready but it shouldn't be the defining factor in a happy relationship! At the same time, chores shouldn't make or break a relationship, at least in my book. But, it is nice (and less stressful) to have the chores split evenly.
A great sex life
Household chores? What's that? Oh your an the job of every women? Hmmm...
Both. I'm still laughing at your answer Brian! LOL!
Between the two, I'd say the chores. I'd be very resentful if they weren't split evenly.
Both
good SEX life
