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In the past, have you been dumped more or done the dumping more?
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It's irrelevant - I have experienced both in what feels like even measure. I suppose I wear people out. But each and every time it hurts a little worse either way
Who cares about the past. This time is kinda like a mutual agreement (not saying it out of pride). I agree with taking separate parts. However the way it happened wasn't how I expected or wanted it to be. I would have liked to leave the door open. So maybe one day when we both recover it might be reconsidered
I am in my first relationship. So neither. I can say I did a lot of rejecting. Sometimes very nice people. But I always had an idea of what my prince charming would be like and they weren't it.
I almost always did the dumping. Walking/running away is general theme of my past.
It's about even
I usually got dumped
Dumped more 😞
Dumped
I've only had "1" boyfriend, although the relationship was kinda iffy. We only dated for a month and he wasn't there half the time and he dumped me. It was a bummer but I haven't dated since until my love now
I think I am being dumped right now silence speaks volumes
No I guess that makes two of us tonight...he went from amazing to silent in no time flat and all I want to know is why and no answer to phone calls text messages nothing. If it were not a ten hour drive I would go be on his door step just for an answer...But not sure what to do any more
Female, 41-50 years, Dating | May 05, 2012
Female, 41-50 years, Dating | May 05, 2012
Dumped more than dumping. But life has a way of working itself out
Female, 41-50 years, Dating | Jun 06, 2015
Female, 41-50 years, Dating | Jun 06, 2015
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None, because I was a virgin until I met her :D
I've been dumped by both of my ex boyfriends :(
Really never dated a lot. So I guess it would be about even... I have had my share of being dumped and vise versa.
I was mostly the one who ended it
