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What position do the two of you usually fall asleep in? Do you like it this way? Why or why not?
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Either spooning (I'm the little one) or laying on our sides facing each other with my head in his chest and his head on mine and me holding either his shirt collar or shoulder. both ways our legs are tangled together:)
We fall asleep very close. I love it. I call it my sleep spot.
Opposite sides of the bed, with out backs to each other. I wish she was more comfortable falling asleep on my chest. I LOVE that.
Whenever we had a single bed, we had no choice but to spoon. Now we are on our respective sides:( I think we need to invest in a twin size bed...
Sometimes spooning but mostly with our backs to each other. I SO prefer spooning or him holding me or me holding him.
We usually fall asleep spooning and his arm wrapped around me holding my breast in his hand. I love it this way. I feel safe wrapped up in his arms and his hand is always keeps my boobies warm. :)
Spooning! So we can wrap our arms around each other and hold hands and be close! But sometimes the spooning doesn't last too long because I want to turn around again to face you and look at you and stroke your hair and kiss you! Do I like it? I love it!!!
He falls asleep facing the wall, laying in his stomach and I sleep like a baby begging for attention from his momma.
We aren't usually touching. I wish we cuddled more.
I agree. More of this is needed. Especially before summer gets here and it's too hot!
Male, 41-50 years, Engaged, ID, US | Apr 04, 2013
Male, 41-50 years, Engaged, ID, US | Apr 04, 2013
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He usually lays on his back and I lay my head on his chest. Our arms are around each other. Somehow we never stay like that though! I absolutely love falling asleep that way. I feel so close to him. And I can listen to his heart beat as I fall asleep:3
Back to back or atleast his back to me... I used to feel like I couldn't sleep when he was cuddling me n than I couldn't move but now all I wish is that he would try to hold me before we go to bed or during anytime really but guess were past the great lovey dovey stage and I miss it too much... Sigh ..time ruins all. I just wish he would try like he used to to be near me but don't think I'm on his to do list anymore
I need some cuddly lovins asap....
Female, 36-40 years, Dating, NJ, US | Mar 13, 2013
Female, 36-40 years, Dating, NJ, US | Mar 13, 2013
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Asleep on my side with a bulldog pressed against me and her on the couch downstairs
It depends on the night and who falls asleep first. We may start off cuddled but by morning we're separate but legs curled : )
I sleep on my left side, and he sleeps better on his right side so we have a weird system we do: we'll fall asleep on our left sides with him cuddling me, then he'll roll over and spread out for a few hours; I end up curled around him for about two hours after that then roll back on my left side and spread out to prop my ankle on top of his and my back cuddled to him. We're weird, but weird together.
If he doesn't fall aslp inside of me (yes it has happened several times then either I fall aslp laying my head on his chest or laying on my side with his arms wrapped around me.
