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What's something you do that bothers your partner, and that you are willing to change?


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My anger


Don't start another job until one is finished


Im not sure if anything bothers my partner. But if anything did, no matter what it is, I would change it without question. And I'd ask for his help with it if I needed to. I'd kill or die for him let alone change something!


Idk


Getting defensive when we talk. I am way too sensitive about what people think of me and I need to be OK with being wrong or different.


Probably play fighting with him so much, I always end up hurting him haha


Too friendly with my exes... I am willing & have changed that.


Not fully trusting him. I am getting better each day.


Lol... Everything?
But no he thinks I'm too nice and try to help wayyy too much with things that shouldn't concern me. That I do it to the point where I affect my life. But he does the same by deciding to risk his life for the country. Will I change it? Maybe a little. Not to the extremes I did before. But I will continue to help because that's who I am.
Idk what else pisses him off right now.


The way I talk when I argue and bad way .. Slangs


I run my effing mouth!!!! I ask too many questions that I feel I have the right to know apparently he differs


When we argue I use things he has told me in the past against him :/


I can stop being judgey in same social situations.


Being so defensive out of a sense of feeling attacked. As a former people pleaser, I am constantly scrambling to fond a balanced, fair response that doesn't involve simply shutting down. It really frustrates me in personal relationships and yet I recognize it in myself.


I shut down I know I need to change that part of me



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