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Do you enjoy keeping the peace or a good debate?
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I find a good debate adds more to the romantic chemistry and "glue" of the relationship. But, like James Carville (a Democratic political strategist who is married to Republican strategist Mary Matalin) says, "Decide what hill you're willing to die on." Most of the battles and most of the hills are not worth slaying the marriage on!
Mixture of both. If the topic is something g of importance I will debate.
I enjoy peace but sometimes a debate as it is called here shows interest and willing to carry on and enough love there to fight for. When you run away from everything and stop working at things and just give in to everything or idea, i feel that someone has given up. Giving up is just another way for love to die.
I enjoy keeping the peace. I also don't mind a good debate as long as it's respectfully done and we can agree to disagree instead of saying one persons wrong and the other is right. Everyone is entitled to their opinion.
I enjoy both..mostly keeping the peace but don't mind a friendly debate
Male or Female, 26-30 years, Dating | Jan 19, 2014
Male or Female, 26-30 years, Dating | Jan 19, 2014
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I prefer to debate. The more we talk, the more I learn. And I'm all about learning. Not only are you contributing new ideas that trigger my mind in new ways, I'm thinking out loud which helps me move my thoughts along.
Good debate
Good debate
Debate
Usually keeping the peace But if I feel super strongly about something, I'll be sure to fight that
We sorta argue about everything but it's always in good fun
Keeping the peace for the most part
Keeping the peace
I prefer peace but a good intellectual discussion is always welcome. Just no heated feelings please, there is enough drama in the world!
Good debate
It used to be "no conflict", but now bring the heat! Really, keeping the peace can only be attained by opening up our challenges with constructive debate.
