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Do you enjoy keeping the peace or a good debate?
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both, but it depends on the situation and I'm also learning as our relationship grows sometimes I'd rather keep peace and find ways to keep peace.
I like to keep the peace!
Lol a good debate! Of course it won't turn into arguments prolly would end up pushing him off the bed :p
my tendency is to keep the peace, but that doesn't get in the way of talking and being honest.
a good debate!
both, depending on the situation, but overall goal is to keep the peace even in a debate
my wife is the peace maker, I'm the debater
most definitely a good debate
Peace
Debates are fun when they're not about stuff that people feel really strongly about. But if there's any chance someone is bothered or upset, I'd rather just shut up.
I'd rather keep the peace. But if I feel really strongly about the topic I usually will say something. And I feel strongly about a lot...I try to avoid needlessly upsetting people.
Female, 31-35 years, Domestically Partnered | Jan 09, 2014
Female, 31-35 years, Domestically Partnered | Jan 09, 2014
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Depends on the topic and person. I like a good debate and I am OK with people having different view points. If it is with my hubby and he has to be right sometimes I give in as it is too much work and tension. I never thought I would do this when I was younger but I guess you have to decide which battles to fight :)
yes
usually I keep the peace but sometimes a healthy debate is good and the make up sex is always gooood!!!
I don't even know how to answer this. we just talk things through. it's natural and easy
Peace peace and peace. Although when we are trying to work through something we can have healthy thoughtful conversations.
Totally peace but I think we just need to make sure we are authentic and true to ourselves and each other as we work through our challenges:)
Male, >50 years, Married | Jan 08, 2014
Male, >50 years, Married | Jan 08, 2014
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