Icebreakers
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Currently I believe so..even though he says otherwise
Most likely
OH yes im very difficult.
Sadly, yes :( I should lighten up & make his life easier & less stressful. Unfortunately I am a jealous woman. He is worth the effort & I am blessed to have him!
Most likely. I am very strong, independent, motivated and have high expectations because that's what I would do for others. I'm a blanket of good intentions sewn together with flaws.
It can be at times. I struggle with finding your love language sometimes. I'm not good at expressing my feelings in general so its hard to express my love in way you understand. Which can lead to your needs not being met. Other than that, loving you isn't hard for me.
Male, 41-50 years, Married | Jan 22, 2013
Male, 41-50 years, Married | Jan 22, 2013
I think I can be hard to love at times. I don't pay as much attention to the small details in our relationship sometimes. And have made your feelings seem insignificant at times. I am a flawed person who tends to try and make everyone happy. But I tend to loose focus on the one thing that matters most to me. It doesn't surprise me now why you fell out if love with me.
Male, 41-50 years, Married | Jan 22, 2013
Male, 41-50 years, Married | Jan 22, 2013
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Probably
I know it used to be with me, very much. I'm hoping its getting easier now.
No, I enjoy loving you and I love making you happy and finally being us again. I am glad that the hard part Is over and we can work on us again like we have been.
Male, 41-50 years, Married, AZ, US | Jan 28, 2013
Male, 41-50 years, Married, AZ, US | Jan 28, 2013
Me too, my love.
Female, 41-50 years, Married, AZ, US | Jan 28, 2013
Female, 41-50 years, Married, AZ, US | Jan 28, 2013
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I've been told exhausting
I hope not! Loving her is easy.
Maybe sometimes
Dont know....
probably if you are doing it right
No
I would imagine so.
Loving someone is hard work but my boo makes it so easy. She is understanding, compassionate, my friend and companion. She is strong when I need her to be as well as re-assuring but also sympathetic in that time of need too. I won't lie it is hard. There are things that I just keep out of my mind cuz I would love to see happily-ever-after, so I'm working on it. One day at a time!
Male, >50 years, Dating | Jan 23, 2013