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Is it healthy to keep secrets from your partner?

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Male or Female, 21-25 years, Dating

No tenemos secretos, al menos yo

Male or Female, 21-25 years, Dating • • Comment

Female, >50 years, Dating

no secrets are not healthy

Female, >50 years, Dating • • Comment

Male or Female, 21-25 years, Dating

Yes and no. Yes if it's something that that's really personal and won't affect your relationship in any way. Now if you kept a secret like you cheated, and they found out by some other means, then that's a breach of trust, it's sometimes better to just tell the truth no matter the outcome. It shows integrity and honesty.

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Female, >50 years, Dating

Agreed. If it's something that would affect our relationship, the truth is always the best. Honesty builds trust.
Female, >50 years, Dating | Sep 05, 2017

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Male or Female, 21-25 years, Dating

just in case it doesn't have to do with the relationship and it is something very personal (for example about family or something that can damage the relationship and it doesn0t worth telling)

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Male or Female, 21-25 years, Dating

No, speaking from experience. I now know here isn't anything I couldn't tell him.

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Female, 36-40 years, Engaged, Bi, LA, US

No could be detrimental to the relationship

Female, 36-40 years, Engaged, Bi, LA, US • • Comment

Male or Female, 21-25 years, Dating

No pero hay ocasiones que no debes contar todo

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Male or Female, 21-25 years, Dating

No.

Male or Female, 21-25 years, Dating • • Comment

Male or Female, 21-25 years, Dating

No, no lo es.

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Male or Female, 21-25 years, Dating

No

Male or Female, 21-25 years, Dating • • Comment

Male or Female, 21-25 years, Dating

Only not important ones, nothing that's could damage the relationship

Male or Female, 21-25 years, Dating • • Comment

Female, 26-30 years, Dating

Pues secretos no pero no se tiene que saberlo todo

Female, 26-30 years, Dating • • Comment

Male or Female, 21-25 years, Dating

Si, siempre que el diga que no lo quiere contar tengo que respetar

Male or Female, 21-25 years, Dating • • Comment

Female, 36-40 years, Dating

No... it is not... communication is vital!

Female, 36-40 years, Dating • • Comment

Male or Female, 21-25 years, Dating

Only if your partner is a human lie detector, and can sniff your bologna as it comes out of her cake hole.

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