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1. Communication
2. Intimacy/Romance
3. Household (members, responsibilities)
2. Intimacy/Romance
3. Household (members, responsibilities)
him not being so sensitive to things I say! I'm supposed to be the sensitive one right!?!
drinking too much.
not fighting over petty things
drinking too much.
not fighting over petty things
We both have been very stressed lately and have had big changes in our lives... If we could communicate better without sarcasm an jokes that would help and not let others like family or friends get involved in our problems ... If we could cut down the bills and watch our finances better things will get better in that field ... Also I believe that we need to show each other that we truly do care and love for each other more ... I just hope my hubby knows I'm always here for him
1) Trust
2) communication/ listening
3) support
(NOTE: read my reply for more details about the 3 things, it's too long)
2) communication/ listening
3) support
(NOTE: read my reply for more details about the 3 things, it's too long)
1) Trust: trust has been damaged dramatically due to many things (lies, misleadings, hidden secrets, dishonesty, etc) that has happened over the years. Without trust, relationship will not succeed.
2) communication/ listening: I would like to finish my sentence my self and not to be cut off short so I can get my point across. I wish to be listened to the words I say and not to be forgotten after a few days. I would want everything in details and direct. nothing in the gray spot or partially complete,definitely not a complete lie.
3) support: I would like improvement on the emotional support. I feel like an enemy sometimes, I like to hear and see more positive things about me when it comes to hearing what others say about me based on what she says, rather than being ridiculed or being blamed. I would like to improve this type of support by actually showing in public that we care for each other and that we are a couple, not a stranger or just for a "married title".
Male, 41-50 years, Married | Jul 21, 2012
Male, 41-50 years, Married | Jul 21, 2012
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1) both of us get out careers off the ground.
2) have a larger living space.
3) have help cleaning the house.
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1) have a successful job
2) be able to travel more
3) be financially secure.
2) have a larger living space.
3) have help cleaning the house.
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1) have a successful job
2) be able to travel more
3) be financially secure.
Me being honest
Budgeting. That is all lol
Communication, a place to live that meets all of our needs, and possibly a new job.
1) Stability
2) Distance
3) his career taking off.
2) Distance
3) his career taking off.
I guess we could work on the way we communicate work on our anger issues and try to make them better
You getting a job that you could really sink your teeth into or at least give you time to focus on Vet school.
Financial security because you know I worry about money and the future all the time.
I wish we had a dog to cheer you up all the time.
Financial security because you know I worry about money and the future all the time.
I wish we had a dog to cheer you up all the time.
communication and more quality time together
1. Trust
2. Financial Security
3. Communication
2. Financial Security
3. Communication
No longer being long distance... Good or bad, I can't think of any other problems.
Definitely communication! And I need to get a better paying job preferably in my major.
