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What two or three problems, if solved, would make the most positive difference in your relationship? In your life?
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Living together would make the biggest difference. More communication and more time together would both get solved by that
His need to be on the computer all the time, my need to spend money and not having to pay daycare. If daycare wasn't involved, we'd be well off.
Communicating more, more intimate time, slowing down and enjoying each other.
Fucking the importance of sex ! Might as well be a church man! I'm retiring my dick! If it doesn't come natural in your relationship it never will. Year and a half and it's the same.
I must be getting my karma. Idk feels like I'm living a life that's not mine and here for everyone else. I would fuck Elmo about now
I must be getting my karma. Idk feels like I'm living a life that's not mine and here for everyone else. I would fuck Elmo about now
Being in a long-distance relationship, and school. I can't wait to graduate and be with him more and more :)!
more compatible work schedules. closer communication
Us going out and spending more time together doing special things that require us to bond and having more sex
I think if he felt happy in his job it would make a big difference. If there was better trust & a better foundation for trust when we're apart it would make a huge difference to me. And if the little things were taken care of with some forethought or effort, it would make a very positive impact & we would be close to perfect.
Paying for my college and a home for us and for my mother. That's what's stopping us, money.
I totally agree!
for me getting out of my current living situation it is stressing me out, and therefore it puts a lot of stress on our relationship. It has been the hardest relationship she has been in and know that really makes me want to be better. Also for her sleeping schedule to get back on track, which I need to support better than I have been. when these 2 issues are resolved we will be back to us again, and which also would make a difference in how we live our lives as individuals also.
None I can think of... At this point I don't give two flying farts...😄 in life after awhile you count your losses and keep pushing
My status. Better communication.
Our communication is definitely a mess lately. Honestly, if we fixed our living situation, I think it would make a huge positive difference in our lives.
1. Trust. If you say you trust me but keep worrying about ridiculous things and playing 21 questions, I don't believe you trust me. Worrying on occasion is one thing. Constant worry is another. Especially when I've not given her a reason to not trust me.
2. Distance. Living far away from the one you love is tough.
3. Overly clingy. It almost seems obsessive at times. Major turn off! I love clingy but there's a limit.
2. Distance. Living far away from the one you love is tough.
3. Overly clingy. It almost seems obsessive at times. Major turn off! I love clingy but there's a limit.
