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What two or three problems, if solved, would make the most positive difference in your relationship? In your life?
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If she stopped pissing on my floor, if she skateboarded more often (or EVER), and if she was a better ninja
School, jobs, money. Than we could have no worries!
This would require three things - a time machine, a bitch slap and some foresight.
Better in communicating feelings or sarcasm jokes for me and for her receiving the communication
Our communication and both of our tendencies to lose confidence in ourselves. When one becomes depressed the other follows suite and then we shut off from each other.
1) her making a lil more money. 2) me focusing more on my health and diet
Considers my feelings, honesty and put me ahead of friends
If he was to stop trying to do stuff behind my back. If the lies and disrespect stop. If he told me what it is I'm doing wrong to make him do the things he does. If he'd be the same man I met. If he show me how much he cares instead of saying it. If he didn't make me feel like everyone else in my life does. If he stop hurting me with his lies and actions or just let me go so I won't be bitter and could love someone else and allow them to love me.
First thing would be keeping our doors closed more and stop bring do nice to people.
Second but mist importantly I would say being more Christ-like as spouses, parents and people
Second but mist importantly I would say being more Christ-like as spouses, parents and people
Better communication, and getting a level of intimacy we both r happy with,
The distance is the only thing.... But that will be solved in about 5 days :)
#1 - to be able to walk again
#2 - to have all of our children following the Lord with all their hearts and enjoying being a UNITED family again
#3 - to own a home again as well as paying the rest of our debt off
#4 - to really get serious about our retirement and figuring out when that is realistically going to happen and how much we'll need $$ to be able to live the kind of life we want to be content, healthy, and happy!!
#2 - to have all of our children following the Lord with all their hearts and enjoying being a UNITED family again
#3 - to own a home again as well as paying the rest of our debt off
#4 - to really get serious about our retirement and figuring out when that is realistically going to happen and how much we'll need $$ to be able to live the kind of life we want to be content, healthy, and happy!!
Better communication. Both of us tend to be stubborn and shut down. I need to stop making assumptions, all it causes is fighting.I need to be a better listener. I love this kid and he knows it. He has my heart completely.
If we solved our trust and communication issues it would really give our relationship a boost. And of course if our financial stresses were lessened it would really help us. In my life the problems would be my schooling and my job.
If we had more time together, had financial freedom and if we were married :)
