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What two or three problems, if solved, would make the most positive difference in your relationship? In your life?
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1 - Better communication. Not just the basic bare minimum but really acknowledging, listening and understanding
2 - More money to get closer to our goals quicker
2 - More money to get closer to our goals quicker
we start having sex again
we stop snoring
she realizes that it's normal and healthy for us to have entirely separate interests and we don't need to do everything together
we stop snoring
she realizes that it's normal and healthy for us to have entirely separate interests and we don't need to do everything together
If I knew for sure that he was going to school with me.
If my parents loved (or even liked) him and were happy for us.
If he wasn't gone so much. If I could see him more.
If my parents loved (or even liked) him and were happy for us.
If he wasn't gone so much. If I could see him more.
Solving the long distance issue would make the most positive difference in our relationship. We would be able to spend more time with each other and be there for each other during the good and not so good moments. And although I'm thankful and enjoy my job, discovering a different path would make a difference in my life.
Affection, sex, and having an active partner on this site and other relationship tasks
Getting rid of my short temper, my laziness, and our indifference toward each other's siblings. Lol she hardly has any issues cuz she's so awesome! I love her no matter what!
1. Getting two jobs/making enough money while he is in school.
2. Cooking more
3. Losing weight
2. Cooking more
3. Losing weight
1- confidence/self esteem
2- lose weight
3- go back to school
2- lose weight
3- go back to school
4) get out of debt 3) get a new bookshelf 2) hang all our pictures 1) get a new coffee pot
you are so funny AND right:)
Female, >50 years, Married, NC, US | Jun 20, 2012
Female, >50 years, Married, NC, US | Jun 20, 2012
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No more arguing . I love when we get along and laugh and smile .
Communication --too many times we speak to each other only to find the meaning is unexpectedly different and starts an argument.
The ability to live where we want --Though I have a stable job here, my wife is miserable here. For financial reasons, we have no choice but to stay.
My medical problem resolved to recapture the physical relationship we once enjoyed.
The ability to live where we want --Though I have a stable job here, my wife is miserable here. For financial reasons, we have no choice but to stay.
My medical problem resolved to recapture the physical relationship we once enjoyed.
I would definitely have to agree. But, underneath it all we still love each other and that is what matters.
Female, >50 years, Married, OK, US | Jun 20, 2012
Female, >50 years, Married, OK, US | Jun 20, 2012
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I need to learn how to express myself better and show more interest in the bedroom. it's not him, but after a baby it takes a little while to get the sex drive back. and he really needs to learn how to control his anger and lighten up. I would say that's his biggest hurdle.
If he would learn to say no to people sometimes! He wants to please everybody, he has a big heart! If he would become more consistent with his words , and If he would take better care of himself!
Better communication, learning to manage our finances, and goal planning. Each day we continue to grow and our relationship gets stronger, so I know we're on the right track. I love you baby ...there's no one else I would rather be experiencing life's ups and downs with than with you. 😘
I finish school... I lose weight... He stops smoking.
