Icebreakers
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What two or three problems, if solved, would make the most positive difference in your relationship? In your life?
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1. She'd listen to me, actually listen and acknowledge what I say.
2. Patient with me and us.
3. Put me in front of her friends.
2. Patient with me and us.
3. Put me in front of her friends.
Getting ahead financially is the main goal. We are on our way
Both of us getting better jobs making more money, an getting health Insurance
Better communication and more money
If I could learn how to handle stress and not let little things bother me
Well, our arguing, her completely being driven by emotion and me not and getting a career that I really want that fulfills me financially and mentally
I dont necessarily think we have "problems" but I do think once she is able to close the door with her ex when they sell the house, it will help her lose all her ties to the past. And when she moves here to be at "home" with her family, it will help too. I still think our relationship is strong and growing stronger every day.
1: get money/ good job
2: get married
3: Luck
2: get married
3: Luck
Getting rid of our credit cards, me graduating, and both of us supporting each other more
Than we already do.
Than we already do.
Trust needs to be rebuilt and I need to feel like I am her one true love which I know I'm not but I have to forget about that and appreciate what I have. if those two things can be accomplished it will help a ton.
I agree with everything, except that you do have my love unconditional, for as long as we're doing this relationship together. As far as the rest, I will continue to say only time is out friend.
Female, 41-50 years, Married, FL, US | May 01, 2012
Female, 41-50 years, Married, FL, US | May 01, 2012
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My jealousy is the first thing that should be solved. I have trust in him but jealousy kills me always. Second was insecurity. I know I am who he loves the most, but I can't stop comparing myself to other girls :/ Sometimes i'm losing my confidence :) but i know my boyfriend is just beside me helping and encouraging me to do better:)
Move to Chicago and have a job I like.
Just one, I want to earn her trust again.
Gay marriage would be legalized...that would account for one, two, and three.
Agree
Female, 36-40 years, Dating, IA, US | Apr 28, 2012
Female, 36-40 years, Dating, IA, US | Apr 28, 2012
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Compromise attention and learning where to draw the line
