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When do you feel most respected by your partner?
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When she allows me to handle finances my way without her checking behind me or asking specific questions
When he appreciates me & asks my opinion. If someone outside the relationship, like a friend or family member, does or says something that I don't agree with or jeopardises our happiness in some way & he backs me up out of principle, that really feels like he respects & protects me through thick & thin.
When she is calm & respectful towards me.
When I find out she has told someone something I said or did that she liked. Something I cooked maybe or made.
I feel the most respected when he lets me know that he values what I say, how I feel, and what I think about pretty much everything... especially my outlook on life. He truly cares about what's going on in my head.
When he treats me like a lady and opens the door for me. It's really appreciated
When he truly listens to me and respects my needs. It shows me he wants to make me happy
When he's watching in astonishment as I do something creative, making stuff up.
When she asks my opinion on something and doesn't have to go to someone else
When he listens to me.
When he actually almost fought with his parents to protect our love
When he defends me and say nice things about me! No matter if he is upset or not!
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When she shows me Paul Rudd pictures, identifies the best parts of each of them, and says, "be like this". I like the direct approach.
When we listen to each other
