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How do you feel when your partner chooses time with their friends over you?
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It's easy to get mad but it's selfish of me to get mad bcuz I'm the type to do it to her and it isn't right and it kills me inside bcuz I know I messed up
It's ok she needs her time
Hasn't really happened yet but it wouldn't be a problem. I'd expect us both to feel we could see our own friends on a regular basis if we chose to.
I know that I am the most important person in his world. If he chooses to spend time with friends I don't feel like he is choosing them over me. He is free to do as he likes. He will be coming home to me.
It makes me feel bad that I don't get to spend time with him but I no friends come first no matter what
Never happens
I don't feel like he's choosing them over me at all! I think it's totally fine when he hangs out with them! Actually I think it's healthy! I want him to have plenty of time;I don't get upset at all.Though you spoil me, honey, :p I love that you even text me during or try to include me in Skype chats. You're amazing and I love you so much! I mean don't get me wrong though- I crave alone time as well, but I enjoy our balance. And If I'm ever upset you always listen and comfort me. Thank you <3
That doesn't happen.. It should! I'd be totally fine with it. Unless we made plans, then it's not ok to bail unless they really needed her. I'm easy going but not a dumbass!
Not a problem with me, but I kno It bothers him when I do it. I'm sorry babe!!
Yeah that's it I'm putting you on lockdown status!! Hehe j/k. 😉
Male, 41-50 years, Dating, NV, US | Jul 19, 2012
Male, 41-50 years, Dating, NV, US | Jul 19, 2012
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I get irritated sometimes or sad
I love when she hangs out with her friends. But she sometimes purposely says she hanging out with guys to piss me off and I personally don't appreciate that.
Male, 36-40 years, Dating, UT, US | Jul 06, 2012
Male, 36-40 years, Dating, UT, US | Jul 06, 2012
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That never happens. I wish it would more often.
Friends are usually troublesome, I dislike it unless if it's involved with the whole family. Because friends can be deceiving too, act Angel around you and straight up devils behind you when they have your partner. Few friends that are good, you can tell who they area.
Not an issue really if she goes out that all good, if she stays home we me thats great!!!.
I feel happy for her that she gets a chance to spend time with others.
It never happens n he knows he can is allowed 2 spend time with them but would rather be with me ;-)
