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How do you feel when your partner chooses time with their friends over you?
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I am lucky she don't do it much
I absolutely hate it. Because I don't trust it.
Its fine with me as long as there is balance and I'm getting the attention and quality time I need to feel fulfilled in the relationship.
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Male, 31-35 years, Dating, OK, US | Jun 17, 2012
Male, 31-35 years, Dating, OK, US | Jun 17, 2012
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I feel less important given that we only see each other maybe one or two days a week. So if he chooses them over me I'm hurt. Cause he can see them any day. Our days together are few and far between.
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I really don't like that shit it hurts
:-( I'm sorry
Male, 31-35 years, Engaged, VA, US | Jun 11, 2012
Male, 31-35 years, Engaged, VA, US | Jun 11, 2012
It's ok bae we're both learning
Female, 31-35 years, Engaged, VA, US | Jun 11, 2012
Female, 31-35 years, Engaged, VA, US | Jun 11, 2012
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Makes me sad
Idc
I like it when my partner sees friends. We both have enough time that there doesn't usually need to be a tradeoff.
hmmm, sometimes it stings if I want to spend time with them at the same time - it is not just about me though, so go have a great time - wake me up when you stumble in. I know how important time with friends is and time apart, so I rejoice in the fact that he has so many good, fun friends and that he knows how to get the most out of life. Good friends are part of the equation.
I agree, of course. Our situation requires that we spend time with friends as well. I want her to spend time with her friends, but we both have moments of wanting to be alone, or rather, with each other. We've stayed in on weekends just to have a "night in" together on Skype, which will need to fit into our time with getting out with friends also. A balance...something we are both working through at the moment. But it is worth the challenge.
Male or Female, 26-30 years, Dating | Jun 12, 2012
Male or Female, 26-30 years, Dating | Jun 12, 2012
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I ok with that
I'm ok with it but he always does fun things with them and not me :(
She doesn't do it much, but if it were to happen, I'd feel so lame...
It's weird because I know it's healthy but her time is so limited I get jealous when she spends it with people aside from me.
It rarely happens, but I get pissed and hurt feelings.
