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How do you feel when your partner chooses time with their friends over you?
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Choosing time with friends over me is not the right way to say it. I was chosen and I share him with his friends. So the few times he does see his friends I don't mind. I encourage friend time.
Fine. She doesn't get much time to herself or to hang with her friends so I encourage it!
I think gives us time apart and a chance to miss each other.
I feel like i stand far down on her list however she cherrishes time with me...
I think a person has a right to maintain a balance, and allowing each other to spend time with friends is good for the relationship. I think limiting your partner's friendships is a strong sign of disrespect and selfishness. It's all about a balance and communicating with your partner when you do choose to spend time with friends, the sooner this happens the better. Also, if you make a plan or committment to a friend or a partner you should never change this. Choosing only should become a proble
Like he deserves it! He works very hard and doesn't ever make me feel unattended to, so i like hearing about his good times with his friends.
I don't see it as her choosing friends "over" me. Sometimes she is with me, sometimes with them, and both experiences enrich our relationship with each other.
I'm alright with it
Having a circle of friends she feels comfortable with means she wants me to still be that same person I was when she met me and trusts me to be me, that's exactly how I appproach it with her !
It makes me feel unimportant. Sad, lonely.
That's fine, if we had plans already that's kinda lame, but otherwise you need time with friends
I don't believe either of us ever choose our friends over one another. See, I already chose her, but I always encourage her to spend time with her friends as much as she can. Those relationships are important to keep alive, and it also gives us a chance to miss one another.
He doesn't. Actually, I have asked him to go alone when I'm sick or tired, but he refuses. :)
I feel secure and comfortable with my partner spending time with others and invite him to do so when opportunities arise.
just like a turd! jk jk she can spend time wif her frans whenever she wants i love her but i do start to miss her something fierce after bout 2 hours