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How do you feel when your partner chooses time with their friends over you?
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that depends. if i have for example a fun game to play, or a good porno i havent seen, its ok. otherwise, i just slap some sense in her... with love ofc!
Mildly lonely but I know it's healthy for us to both have that sort of time.
As far as he tells me in advance, we re good...so I can make my own plans. Otherwise its an issue:)
I guess it would depend on the situation, but there's time for me, there's time for them and his friends are my friends so I can just come with!
I think it's fine. When we spend time with other people, we have new things to talk about and are more interesting people. I don't think we can be together 24 hours a day, it would make us cranky.
Honestly, this is why I practice voodoo.
Mildly lonely but I know it's healthy for us to both have that sort of time.
I think it's great. He doesn't do it all that often, but I think that everyone needs their own friends and time away from their partner for some perspective. And honestly, I'd rather he gets his outlet of boy-humor out when I'm not the brunt of it!
I think it is great.. Our marriage is lots of together time sprinkled with time with other friends...
I encourage him to do so, Becouse my amazing partner puts me first all the time.
And we like spending time with each others friends, together :)
And we like spending time with each others friends, together :)
I think that everyone needs time alone and/or with their friends. But like with everything there needs to be balance. If it becomes a regular choosing of friends over the relationship that is a problem, because then they are trying to escape the relationship. If it is just a regular hanging out with friends, that is great and a must. People need time apart to be together.
I do not believe its a choosing over me. I know that I am importent to him, so if he wants to hang with some friends I will encourage it. People need friendships in their lives. Im grateful when he includes me, but I know its not always possible and thats okay.
As long as I still get time with her, I'm glad that she spends time with friends. One of the reasons that I fell in love with her is how good of a friend she is.
My partner always puts me first!
Fortunately, we tend to do most things together with friends. I think it is nice since we have many of the same "Friends/acquaintances" and since he and I are best friends, it just feels nice to hang together. In the past, I had men that needed "me time" and always felt like I wasn't a priority. That is not usually the case here.