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Who initially asked who out? Who made the first physical move?
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That would have been me ; )
I made the first move but we both went in for that first kiss.
She initiated contact, but i was a smooth operator after that.
Male, 41-50 years, Married, TX, US | Jun 29, 2013
Male, 41-50 years, Married, TX, US | Jun 29, 2013
Smooth operator huh? Yeah ok.
Female, >50 years, Married | Jun 30, 2013
Female, >50 years, Married | Jun 30, 2013
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After the umpteenth of him asking me out I finally said yes lol
My boyfriend on both
He initially asked me out. I made the move to be physical first.
Me on both
No, him and me! I put my hand in his knee.
My husband on both
I asked her out first. Somehow I got enough of a vibe that she would say yes. I'd never asked anyone out prior to that. Pretty sure I made the first move as well.
Pretty much what he said. Totally caught me off guard but I was pleasantly surprised when he did. The 'thank you card' worked! ;-)
Female, 41-50 years, Married, MD, US | Jun 22, 2013
Female, 41-50 years, Married, MD, US | Jun 22, 2013
You sneaky devil!
Male, 41-50 years, Married, FL, US | Jun 24, 2013
Male, 41-50 years, Married, FL, US | Jun 24, 2013
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He initially asked me out first. I made the first move.
He asked me out on the first real date i ever been on and he won my heart but I'm pretty sure I made the first physical move...
Both were her. I'm pretty shy
Me and me!
I made all the moves lol. I asked her out
If I remember correctly, I kissed him first. He asked me on our first official date.
Female, >50 years, Married | Jun 08, 2013
Female, >50 years, Married | Jun 08, 2013
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I did. It was lame but ehh
Female, 41-50 years, Married | Jun 12, 2013