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Never go to bed angry. Agree or disagree with this advice?


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Most definitely


Definitely not! You have to have closure.


Agreed


agree 110%


Most of the time it's better to resolve before going to bed. But sometimes if that doesn't happen especially if the fight occurs because you two are tired, it's resolves better after a good night's rest.


Agree! Never go to bed angry. We need to get better at it.


Agreed. You may not have closure right away in some cases, but at least calm down enough to say let's agree to let the anger go and sleep on this so we can talk respectfully in the morning. Close your day with a kiss good night and an I love you instead of rolling over and just festering in negative emotions.


Absolutely agree!!


Agree! I never like giving space even though I should because it is healthy every now and then


Fully agree. If I'm with you, I care enough about you to be able to go to sleep with you in my arms or holding your hand. If we go to bed angry, it means something a lot more than an argument.


Agree. Bedtime is the official final buzzer/ expiration for everything that's less important than you and I.
What if you and I are the argument topic?
Female, 26-30 years, Dating | Jan 15, 2016

Then we put it to rest, or very least on a peaceful hold, kiss goodnight, and battle it again, but not until after breakfast in bed 😍
Male or Female, 26-30 years, Dating | Jan 15, 2016

What if we're super frustrated, think we'll want to be hugging and breakfasting in bed?
Female, 26-30 years, Dating | Jan 15, 2016

Are you comfy going to bed angry?
Male or Female, 26-30 years, Dating | Jan 15, 2016

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Agree


Agree completely


Agree, agree, agree! I understand that sometimes you need a few minutes to cool down and think straight but I believe that avoiding a situation is only going to make it worse. The longer it drags out the more likely people are to over think the worst case scenarios and get themselves even more upset than they need to be.
Nope, suck it up, deal with it head on, and then move on with your day.


Sometimes I'm much more rational after I've had sleep and I realize it's not that big of a deal after all



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