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Never go to bed angry. Agree or disagree with this advice?
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Agree, Doesn't always work that way but we both can be stubborn. Always realize later how dumb and hurtful that can be. Some things can't be solved in one conversation. But I love him.
Yes I agree. Even if you're fighting I think at least trying to fix your problem before you go to sleep I healthy for a close relationship to stay close.
I agree, but it's not as easy as it sounds sometimes.
It depends. Sometimes people need to be able to feel their anger and process it, but my inclination is to attempt to work it out before bed, but be understanding if we can't. We haven't had this problem so far.
I totally agree with this.
Totally agree cause you never know what could happen while your sleeping and you may always regret it
Agree
Totally agree- but it's not only up to me.
I agree
Agree.
Agree.
However, for me it's something hard to handle. Therefore, often I don't go to sleep.
However, for me it's something hard to handle. Therefore, often I don't go to sleep.
Yes I agree 100% - but beware of anger turning to grief or other equally unpleasant emotion
Female, >50 years, Engaged, NY, US | Feb 16, 2015
Female, >50 years, Engaged, NY, US | Feb 16, 2015
Yes.
Male, 41-50 years, Engaged, FL, US | Feb 17, 2015
Male, 41-50 years, Engaged, FL, US | Feb 17, 2015
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Absolutely agree! And because we are so attuned to and in tune with each other, I know he feels the same way. It's an amazing thing...
I generally agree with this. Personally I feel restless when Ab and I have an issue we haven't sorted out, and I would always want to be in good terms with her before sleeping. But I think it's also important to give each other the space and time to process things, and not all issues can be fixed in one discussion. The most important thing for me would be to have a mutual understanding to work things out before we go to bed, even if we don't necessarily solve it right away.
I totally agree with Tin on this one.
I appreciate how she's patient with me whenever I'm feeling something. She gives me enough time to sort out my thoughts and process my feelings and then proceeds to talking it out with me. She's very understanding too. I'm grateful for that.
Female, 26-30 years, Married, Gay | Jan 24, 2015
Female, 26-30 years, Married, Gay | Jan 24, 2015
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agree..I cannot sleep knowingsomething sits between us with the opportunity to further push us apart
Agree had been the basis of our relationship FOREVER
Male, 36-40 years, Dating, VA, US | Dec 16, 2014
Male, 36-40 years, Dating, VA, US | Dec 16, 2014
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Agree because there is always the chance it's the last time that I speak to her and I would hate it if something happened to one of us and the last thing was said was an argument.
I agree but sometimes it doesn't work that way and the argument continues to the next morning I hate it
Female, 26-30 years, Dating | Dec 08, 2014
Female, 26-30 years, Dating | Dec 08, 2014
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Male, 26-30 years, Married | Sep 16, 2014