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In a conflict or argument, do you prefer to resolve it now or resolve it later?
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Definitely now. It would drive me crazy to have to wait to deal with it.
I generally prefer to resolve the conflict right away.
I would prefer that it's worked out immediately with both sides being humble and vulnerable enough to look the other person in the eyes and say im sorry and i love you. But, that's hard to do and working it out immediately usually turns into later because we're too pissed to look at each other. What I prefer is not so much a time frame but an attitude of love. If she said I love you and I need time - that'd be fine.
Um now. Waiting and thinking cause me too much stress and anxiety
A little but if time to think or calm down if needed. But as soon as possible. Ignoring it doesn't resolve it.
Me now him later
I like now
Now
I definitely prefer to resolve it now rather than later. I believe, for the most part, in facing conflict head on.
It depends on the issue. I usually prefer to resolve conflicts quickly, but sometimes I need time to collect my thoughts and make my case.
Resolve it right away. Festering doesn't help unless it really is a huge decision. But smallish arguments should be promptly addressed
Now
Now. I hate fighting & My mind will always stir up more trouble the longer it runs
now!
Resolve it now
