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In a conflict or argument, do you prefer to resolve it now or resolve it later?
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Always resolve it when it happens.
Now. Unless your partner is an immature asshole
Right away and whatever it takes. My partner thinks I enjoy it and press her a bit much, but one of the reasons is I feel real anxiety when issues persist. Which makes everything worse
I don't want a second of our lives together spent in conflict or argument, so when they arise I prefer to immediately work it out. The open communication we've cultivated over the years makes that much easier.
I prefer to resolve right then and there but most times I refuse and make a bad mistake of doing it later.
Right away, as soon as possible! Conflicts are like physical wounds. If you don't tend to them right away, but let them sit, you run the chance of things getting worse.
I think my boyfriend feels the same, which is probably why we haven't ever had a real argument.
I think my boyfriend feels the same, which is probably why we haven't ever had a real argument.
I have learned that its better for me to wait a little bit so I can cool off, but Jayke tends to want to discuss things right then.
I prefer to solve it right away
I prefer to resolve now, since I hate leaving things up in the air, but sometimes it's better to walk away from the argument and cool off first.
Now
For me I think it depends on my mood, emotions, and what the conflict is. Sometimes I just need a little while to think it over and calm down. I usually make very rash decisions if they're based on emotion
I prefer to resolve it at that moment but if it's heated then I prefer to have a cooler head before trying to resolve
I prefer to resolve it now, put it to rest. I can't stand going throughout the day, or going to bed with something looming over my head.
Right away!
You can't truly move on till the resolved and talked through
You can't truly move on till the resolved and talked through
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Male, 31-35 years, Dating, Bi | Mar 28, 2013
Male, 31-35 years, Dating, Bi | Mar 28, 2013
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