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In a conflict or argument, do you prefer to resolve it now or resolve it later?
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I prefer to resolve it now but that rarely happens....but the most important thing is to resolve it and never let the sun set with contention or strife.
Resolve it now. If you wait, it festers, and that always makes it worse.
I do not like to have unresolved conflict. It weighs on me. I ponder solutions. I try to consider the other person's point of view. I look for options to resolve it that have not been considered. I just want it over. I cannot seem to allow it to "rest" in order for it to be resolved later.
Resolve it now. Stewing about the details does not benefit anyone.
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Male, 26-30 years, Married | Mar 13, 2013
Male, 26-30 years, Married | Mar 13, 2013
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My preference is to hash it out until it's solved no matter how long it takes. It's always hard for me to move on until a conflict is satisfactorily resolved.
I totally agree!
Female, 26-30 years, Married | Mar 11, 2013
Female, 26-30 years, Married | Mar 11, 2013
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I don't like conflicts at all. I like to resolve them as soon as possible. However I am getting better at giving it time to cool off, then work it out.
I don't like conflict, but if it's happening it needs to be resolved now.
Depends on subject or mood
I like resolving them later. It's never good to argue when people have hurt feelings
I have to resolve it now or it just festers in my mind and I obsess over it until its better.
My preference is to solve it sooner rather than later but sometimes in the moment I get do worked up that I shut down.
Noé but sometimes one of us needs to calm down enough first or one of us might withdraw and in those times -later.
Nowwwww
I want to resolve it now cause other wise it just fisters inside me till I explode on him way bigger than I meant to
Best believe resolve now than later or it can escalate
