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Would you want to know if your partner was cheating on you? Why or why not?
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yes I would like to know. If there is loyalty in a relaitonship it would be great for both partners to be honest with each other.
You're damn right I'd want to know so I can take the trash out. I don't like wasting my time. Cheating is not ok. I don't put up with that. It would hurt like hell but once the trust is gone... where did the relationship go? "But if you really loved me you would give me another chance. Blah blah blah!" Screw that! Just like you screwed him/her. If you really loved me, you wouldn't have done it. Just sayin'!
Yep. I would extremely hurt and disappointed. But I would rather be disappointed and hurt than be a fool.
yes i don't want to be lied too, and it's usually a sign that they have moved out of the relationship and it's time for me to do the same...
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I would want to know.
Who wouldn't? And if anyone said no... That's BS. It would hurt, it would suck and it would break us, but I don't want to live in a lie. I don't "look the other way"
Hell yeah I would want to know. I don't think I could go any further with someone if they cheated on me. It would hurt like hell if she cheated on me. I would be more hurt than anything. I would not be able to stay. I would have a part of me wanting to for sure, because losing someone is hard. I won't tolerate that though.
Omg yes I would want to know.
Yes, because I feel like he'd be stealing my right to choose whether or not I wanted to be in the relationship, by not telling me. If you have balls enough to screw around, have balls enough to come clean about it.
I love her very much, really. And every day I realize it. So I guess I'm ready to share her guilt with her, so she wouldn't be alone with this. She always has my hand, in every situation, even when it's very hard.
Yes I would like to know because i feel like its respect but mostly it's going to give me the option of what I'm going to do next
And if they hide it in I find out everything they do next will make me on edge in I'll have hard time trusting them n seeing them like I did b4
And if they hide it in I find out everything they do next will make me on edge in I'll have hard time trusting them n seeing them like I did b4
Of course!!!! because trust is a major issue for me.
Yes and that day he will make a choice! I don't Dorset us having that issue though
Yes, because I need honesty (truth) as a foundation on which I can base my life decisions. I need to do what is best for my family, and that would definitely effect how I make those decisions.
It's so true how when there is a family involved there is so much more to think of then just yourself and what's been done to you. I wonder if people with kids answer this question differently than people without.
Female, 41-50 years, Dating, CA, US | May 30, 2012
Female, 41-50 years, Dating, CA, US | May 30, 2012
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