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Would you want to know if your partner was cheating on you? Why or why not?
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Yes for sure when you marry it's for life
No. If It happened, then all I would want to know is how to be a better partner at home so she wouldn't want to.
I totally feel this way too! If it's something I could change, I'd do it, right?
Female, 36-40 years, Dating, Bi, DC, US | Feb 29, 2012
Female, 36-40 years, Dating, Bi, DC, US | Feb 29, 2012
Yes, but if there is enough love and trust I'd hope the requests could be made to change before the betrayal. I would ask for the change I need before seeking outside my relationship. If change doesn't happen I guess I tried.
Female, 41-50 years, Engaged, NV, US | Feb 29, 2012
Female, 41-50 years, Engaged, NV, US | Feb 29, 2012
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Yes.. I don't won't to live in a lie
I would know! I just know things!
I would definatly want to know even thought it would crush me. If this were the case and he were to cheat, I would expect something to be wrong and would want to fix the problem.
It would absolutely devastate me begone belief. I would feel so broken. But yes, I would need to know.
Yes, I don't want to be in a relationship that isn't real for both of us.
Yes, absolutely. Honesty is important. Once the truth is known, we can figure out if we can move past it and figure out how to prevent it in the future if so.
Yes... Although I hope that never happens :(
No. But I would want to know what I could improve on to make him feel like he didn't have to go elsewhere to get what he wants.
Yes, I would. We've had an open relationship for a while now; getting involved with someone and not telling each other is not part of the bargain. I would really need to know why that happened.
Yes. I can always forgive honesty. But I guess it depends too if it was a one time thing he regrets(don't need to know), vs a continuing problem or an "ongoing" affair(fess up). Repeat offenders ought to admit they aren't ready to commit. And stick to keeping an open dating situation. If you make a promise of commitment keep ur word.
Yes, because at that point all bonds are broken and the meaning of marriage has gone out of the window.
Yes. So I could get rid of him.
This was the only rational response I've read
Female, 36-40 years, Dating, CA, US | Mar 01, 2012
Female, 36-40 years, Dating, CA, US | Mar 01, 2012
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Of course I would want to know. That affects the trust in the relationship.
