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Whose needs tend to take priority in your relationship?
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Lindsay's needs for sure
I believe Xaris' needs are met first then mine are.
Hers but that is because i put her prioritys first
It's fairly equal, he likes to spoil me sometimes and he always tries to make me really happy. I do the same things for him
Mine... I'm not gonna lie. He likes to baby and spoil me a lot- which I love most of the time. But I'm afraid that if he keeps doing that and something happens to him, if he decided to leave... I'd be worse off because I'd be so used to him doing all these things for me.
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I would have to say mines, he spoils me and I love it!
i would say mine right know but i think it varies depending on the nature of the situation, topic, etc. but i would also say that is because i am the more "needier" one in a sense that he is in a more stable position to help and i am in more of a transitional position and trying to obtain a more permanent status but i know that he knows that i am very open to feelings. I'm the one that always wants to know how a person is feeling and asking what they need from me. as far as feelings go, he is a
Both but I kno at times I can be a bit selfish nd I'm working on that
Female, 36-40 years, Engaged, Gay | Apr 07, 2013
Female, 36-40 years, Engaged, Gay | Apr 07, 2013
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Mine...lol.
Children at the moment, work, rest, and computers and phones
My own instead of equally between us. I never really met his needs and mine had to be forced because they were more like desperate wants.
Hers. She's a needy person. Her emotions alone, are like a job. Then again, it could vary from day to day, week to week. So I'm going to change my answer and say.. It's fairly equal on both. Cause I deff have my moments. It's what happens when two women are together! Lol!
I will agree with this. I could answer this also, but I would be saying the same thing you just said. It is more on the equal level though I believe.
Female, 41-50 years, Engaged, Gay, MS, US | Mar 08, 2013
Female, 41-50 years, Engaged, Gay, MS, US | Mar 08, 2013
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Equal, but not always by choice
Equal, but not always by choice
It should be both
I think we do a good job with that
I think we do a good job with that
I'd like to say it's even, but due to a few situations I'm in, it's probably me. I hope to be out of them soon, so we can even them out.
Female, 26-30 years, Married | Apr 20, 2013