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We both make each other priorities
We try to keep it equal, but lately his. I think that caused us both to feel a disconnect, so we are working on communicating more. I have a hard time being direct with what I want, and I'm sure that drives him nuts.
Probably mine. We both value each others needs, I'm probably just a bit more needy. We both try to do things for each other to satisfy needs and wants and show appreciation. It's probably something I should work on though.
I think we're both good at taking care of each others needs
Male, 36-40 years, Married | Jan 15, 2013
Male, 36-40 years, Married | Jan 15, 2013
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My needs are probably met more often, mainly because I'm not exactly sure what my needs are ;) but she is the primary care for our young children, and I get to go to a workplace and have a built in social life outside the home and I can go to the bathroom whenever I feel like it. She has to plan in order to simple things like that. And, I can decide NOT to work while I'm at the office and nobody notices. If she decided to not work while with the kids--well, its not really an option is it?
Very even if either of us need something the other is always there to listen and help
She sacrifices so much to meet my needs. I do don't so as good a job. She is learning not to do this as much because it definitely hurts her.
His
I think we both equally try to work to meet eachothers needs
mine? :(
Everyone's but mine...
I hope that ultimately we balance each other out. Thats how its been so far. If he's being a loony for a minute I say "no baby, we do it together" & when Im spooked & backing away he's all calm & supportive. Gracious we're lucky. ❤
Sorry tiger, didnt explain that one properly either!
Female, 41-50 years, Dating, VIC, AU | Jan 22, 2013
Female, 41-50 years, Dating, VIC, AU | Jan 22, 2013
I know what you're trying to say baby, it's a fantastic answer! ❤
Male, 26-30 years, Dating, BC, CA | Jan 22, 2013
Male, 26-30 years, Dating, BC, CA | Jan 22, 2013
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Him by far
I think we ebb and flow on this one. 2012 was a tough year for us both. We both required support at different times. On the hole, and despite the challenge, we were very supportive of the other.
Prob me.
I'm not sure but probably mine.
