Icebreakers
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What do you do when you want to relax? How can you best help your partner to relax?
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Music helps. Hmmm snuggling and a massage I bet would help.
I play games online or read or watch tv. My partner also enjoys tv, so we find things to watch together.
Shop, go out..a chance of scenery helps me to relax. I don't know what I can do to get him to relax besides sex. He focuses on work n politics so much it's hard to get his attention long enough to relax
I like to relieve stress in the bedroom but it seems like thats the furthest thing from his mind when hes stressed.
I like drawing to relax..I can get her food to help her relax...(sorry that makes you seem fat)..lol
I listen to audiobooks, watch tv, or 24/7 comedy. I think he'd love a massage.
Me~ I listen to music on the porch. Him~ to help him I try to leave him alone
Cuddle up with my hunny and lay in my bed and watch movies! He likes a nice massage to relax pf ;-)
Put on my PJs and turn on the TV or take a shower. To help my husband relax is summed up on lyrics: baby we could do it take your time do it right. We could do it baby, do it tonight!!!
We watch movie.sometimes go for a massage together.or go swimming only both of us
I like to watch series of crappy shows on Netflix...him drink
UUUUGH what I'd do for a massage from my honey right meow
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Shower
Cuddle when the baby goes to bed. Cuddle with him.
