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When do you feel the loneliest in life? When do you feel the loneliest in your relationship?
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when my wife fights with me ...same answer for both
I am loneliest without Abby; I am lonely with Abby when I think about being apart from Abby. I need to stop thinking those thoughts!
I feel loneliest in life when I have no money to do things. I can't go out and have dinner or drinks with my friends. I feel loneliest in the relationship when my girlfriend is angry and doesn't talk to me.
All the time
Loneliest in life is when I've not had full disclosure on all the varied subjects in my life and I feel like I'm withdrawn or detached from my spouse. Loneliest in the relationship is when days turn into weeks which at times have turned into months and the realization hits that my FB posts are more familiar with my life than my own spouse...sigh.
when you come home and be a great dad, but then have to work all night to be ready for the next day at work. :( I don't like going to bed by myself.
Life: I don't
Relationship: she lives ten hours away from me
Relationship: she lives ten hours away from me
Life: When I'm alone...and I'm not trying to be sneaky there, I just mean that if I'm not going to church or school or some sort of social get-together and I'm alone, I can feel a bit lonely.
Relationship: Well Dear Hubby is an introvert so he is not big into talking out loud. He *thinks* a lot and I believe it seems like if he thinks it I must know it... lol... but saying things out loud is harder. So I feel lonely when he doesn't talk.
Relationship: Well Dear Hubby is an introvert so he is not big into talking out loud. He *thinks* a lot and I believe it seems like if he thinks it I must know it... lol... but saying things out loud is harder. So I feel lonely when he doesn't talk.
In Life: when I am commuting to and from work.
In my Relationship: when I found out what she did......she was who I shared my problems with since my father died, I had no one to lean on when she hurt me.
In my Relationship: when I found out what she did......she was who I shared my problems with since my father died, I had no one to lean on when she hurt me.
In Life: Often
In relationship: When he's not around, when i feel lost and confused...
In relationship: When he's not around, when i feel lost and confused...
sorry :(
Male, 31-35 years, Dating | Sep 11, 2011
Male, 31-35 years, Dating | Sep 11, 2011
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When my love is traveling I hate when he is not sleeping next to me
I feel the loneliest in life when I don't feel productive. I feel lonliest in my relationship when I've inadvertently done or said something to make him mad or upset and I know that I'm entirely to blame.
In life it's when I travel alone and in my relationship it's when he is distant and not talking or sharing himself with me
When I am alone with the kiddos with no other adults to talk to
Late at night when she is away for work
