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When do you feel the loneliest in life? When do you feel the loneliest in your relationship?
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I had a very lonely childhood. And when his away.
When everything is going south and it really feels no one understands you or can... I must admit I have not felt lonely in a very very long time.
I feel the loneliest in my life when I come back home from work and know there will be no one home to welcome me or come by later. I feel the loneliest in my relationship if I know my partner does not want to see me (this has not happened in my current relationship) or if my partner does not want me to see my friends.
I feel the loneliest in life when I feel lost. Feeling lost in my career, in my decisions, in my life plan. I feel loneliest in my relationship when I feel like I'm letting her down.
Life: When I'm overwhelmed with work, school, and lately an illness in my family.
Relationship: When my partner is grumpy because of work, and I'm trying to help him, all the while dealing with my own constant stress.
Relationship: When my partner is grumpy because of work, and I'm trying to help him, all the while dealing with my own constant stress.
It's funny that you say you agree. Agree to what?? I didn't say I was lonely. If you feel lonely, ask yourself why? Have you alienated, pushed away the other person with certain behaviors, words, deeds, or lack thereof?
I feel the inability to look within and recognize is an issue. There are two people in this relationship, it can't always, all the time, be about just one of us.
I just don't know. I feel like I'm coming up short all the time. I feel like with you,
It's either I have to giv
I feel the inability to look within and recognize is an issue. There are two people in this relationship, it can't always, all the time, be about just one of us.
I just don't know. I feel like I'm coming up short all the time. I feel like with you,
It's either I have to giv
I feel the loneliest in life when I come back from a long hour shift from the hospital and have no one to share my day with and no one to cuddle with at night. I feel the loneliest in a relationship when my partner prefers to be with his friends rather than me ( my past relationship we always went out our separate ways) my current relationship I am still learning about him but hope he never puts his friends before his partner.
when I'm sad in my relationship. When I can't see things going farther.
I used to feel loneliest when before during idle time on weekends when before I was in a relationship. I have not felt lonely much these last 4-5 months.
Life: When I'm driving in my car without the radio on. If I turn the radio on, though, and hear commercials in between songs, for some reason I don't feel lonely anymore. The commercials make me feel like there are other people "out there."
Relationship: I did feel lonely when we had troubles a few years back, when I didn't feel that he let me in emotionally. Now things are great, and I feel like we both share with each other and let each other in, so I don't feel lonely any more.
Relationship: I did feel lonely when we had troubles a few years back, when I didn't feel that he let me in emotionally. Now things are great, and I feel like we both share with each other and let each other in, so I don't feel lonely any more.
I cannot remember the last time I felt lonely. I'm an introvert, actually (contrary to popular belief). I love being alone.
Male, 41-50 years, Dating, CA, US | Aug 26, 2011
Male, 41-50 years, Dating, CA, US | Aug 26, 2011
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高四的时候，每天晚上一个人在操场上走，没有人可以说心里话的时候，是最孤独的。不过已经过去了。现在没有那种孤独了哈哈哈。in relation ship，暂时还没有，因为Feddy很疼我啊，他不让我孤独，嘿嘿。也许等我们都忙起来了，会有孤独感，但是我不怕。我知道我们一直在彼此心里的。
I don't feel too lonely in life -- anymore. Years ago, it was _very_ different. In this relationship, the times I feel lonely are few and far between, and are pretty much only after we've had a fight that isn't resolved, but are laying in bed together. You fall asleep (Or it seems like you have) and I'm lying awake feeling horribly lonely and awful.
I probably felt the loneliest after my 2nd husband walked out on us 3 weeks before Xmas with a 5 month old baby. Being blindsided sent me into the darkest place I had ever gone. I am rarely lonely now though since I have embraced being alone to get comfortable with it. I feel lonely in my relationship when I get pushed to an ugly place and feel the need to shut down.
I feel the loneliest in life when I am driving away from his house at night to drive all the way back to my place. *le sigh* Loneliest in a relationship is when I have to wait for him to call me because I think I have exhausted my daily allotment of calls.....
Monday evenings. Long distance is tough but always looking forward to Friday.
