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I tend to get frustrated at one thing, and end up taking my frustration out at random things that my boyfriend will do. Although they might annoy me, when I'm frustrated about something else, I get extremely upset
Sometimes love, I tend to still have a wall
Sadness, frustation. I keep alot of it to myself.
When I'm generally upset or hurt. I tend to hold it in and then randomly explode in tears. As a kid I could never express those feelings to my parents unless I wrote them down because I would turn into a blubbering mess.
Sadness
stress
Hurt....I don't like to admit that I let myself be vulnerable enough to get hurt. And I always feel like I am creating pressure or tension by letting know he has hurt me.
Excitement! up until this person/partner in my life.. I have always been "let down" or "disappointed" when I got my hopes up on something.
Anger and compassion.
crying
Anger, I blow up irrationally, then I pull the silent treatment, then I start to cry which leads to me blowing up again. It's really not pretty.
Compassion
Getting back on track after an argument! I used to be really good with it but these days it feels harder cos my husband doesn't seem as concerned about my feelings as he once did!
Sorting out differences of opinion and not getting into arguments
Male, >50 years, Married, NZ | Mar 12, 2012
Male, >50 years, Married, NZ | Mar 12, 2012
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I, generally, don't have a problem expressing anything. I'm an open book, and say exactly how I feel all of the time. It's alot for my boyfriend to take in, since he doesn't express anything at all.
When my feelings are hurt
