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If you could change one thing about your partner, what would it be?
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That when I'm feeling insecure or inadequate he not get mad at me or lash out. Instead that he comfort me and reassure me that at the end of the day we have each other and we'll be okay.
I wish my sweetie could see how wonderful he is. (And when he's not feeling so wonderful I wish he wouldn't let his anger get the best of him.)
His hot and cold behavior towards me - he acts like he's bi-polar or something I hate it! Stay constant man, stay constant.
I would make her realize how special she is. She is a beautiful person not only on the outside but on the inside where it matters the most!
The only thing I would change is him likeing rap because it's annoying. Other then that it's all good.
She would be naked way more often.
Okay...now I want to go back and change my answer to this. :-)
Male, 41-50 years, Married, WY, US | Jan 03, 2012
Male, 41-50 years, Married, WY, US | Jan 03, 2012
Hehe. Maybe you should lead by example :)
Female, 36-40 years, Married, CA, US | Jan 05, 2012
Female, 36-40 years, Married, CA, US | Jan 05, 2012
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His temper
I wouldn't change a thing. He snores to much, he's gassy, he's a suck when he's sick but I love all those abnormalities because it's him.
I want this same thing from my partner. When things get heavy I want someone to tell me it's all going to be okay. I have expressed this to my bf on occasion and the more he hears it the more often I see it from him. Keep telling him how important it is for you to hear from him that he's there for you even if he can solve your problem. He'll catch on!
Female, 41-50 years, Domestically Partnered, ID, US | Jan 07, 2012
Female, 41-50 years, Domestically Partnered, ID, US | Jan 07, 2012
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Less farting
Her self esteem/body image
Nothing to be honest. She has flaws so do we all but changing one thing about her wouldn't make her who she is the woman I love.
I like your answer. But what are my flaws?
Female, 36-40 years, Dating, CA, US | Jan 05, 2012
Female, 36-40 years, Dating, CA, US | Jan 05, 2012
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Her he's cheating on me paranoia
His obsessive love of Sports!
All men love sports! My GF hated them before we met and now it's something fun we can do together! She talks trash better than anyone now.
Male, 41-50 years, Dating, CA, US | Jan 07, 2012
Male, 41-50 years, Dating, CA, US | Jan 07, 2012
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That he would be more secure about himself!
Have him realize how much I truely love him, and that he's the only one I want to be with. He needs to realize how beautiful he is :)
