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If you could change one thing about your partner, what would it be?
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I would do all I can to help her lift her depression. Life hasn't been easy these last few years but with God, all things are possible!
Smoking. I want him the live a healthier lifestyle so he will be around longer.
Hmmmm. Only one thing !?
A little more sensuality and outward passion.
Nothing. She's good to me!
what?? not my emotional imbalance or uncontrollable cravings???
Female, 31-35 years, Dating | Dec 28, 2011
Female, 31-35 years, Dating | Dec 28, 2011
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Be more patient!
I wouldn't change anything about you because if I did then you wouldn't be you and I wouldn't love you the way that I do.
Rather than change each other, we should grow and improve together.
Rather than change each other, we should grow and improve together.
What do you think I should improve on then ? Be honest :)
Female, 36-40 years, Married | Dec 28, 2011
Female, 36-40 years, Married | Dec 28, 2011
First - what would you like to improve on?
Male, 41-50 years, Engaged | Dec 28, 2011
Male, 41-50 years, Engaged | Dec 28, 2011
Nah
I asked first
Female, 36-40 years, Married | Dec 28, 2011
Female, 36-40 years, Married | Dec 28, 2011
I think you can be a little short sometimes, we could both continue to work on opening up and talking to each other; especially when it comes to your work - always sense such tension there and an unease to talk to me about it.
Maybe be a little more adventurous and willing to go out and do things, to ease up and let life happen.
I don't know if it's something to improve on, but sometimes you're rather serious and realistic - its a nice calming force to my tendency to be all or nothing. :p
One thing that I've definitely seen you grow around is your want to get married and have children... At one point I thought that for sure you wouldn't want that, it's a very nice development.
What about me?
Male, 41-50 years, Engaged | Dec 28, 2011
Male, 41-50 years, Engaged | Dec 28, 2011
Mostly the fact that you don't talk much about how you feel. I don't need to know everything - I don't want to know everything. I just don't want you to say everything's fine when I can clearly see that something's bothering you.
Female, 36-40 years, Married | Dec 28, 2011
Female, 36-40 years, Married | Dec 28, 2011
One thing I noticed is that over the months, you seem to be a little more open talking about your dad. And I like that, because I'll never have the chance to get to meet him. So every time you talk about him, I feel I get to know him a little better.
I'll never force you to talk about anything. I just want you to know there's really nothing you can't tell me, ok ?
Female, 36-40 years, Married | Dec 28, 2011
Female, 36-40 years, Married | Dec 28, 2011
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Nope, wrong answer! I would make him more confident in all that he is. The great looking, thoughtful, caring, and super intelligent husband he is.
Besides, the question was about what you would change in me. I should be less selfish, more patient, and think through my choice of words more carefully.
Besides, the question was about what you would change in me. I should be less selfish, more patient, and think through my choice of words more carefully.
And more blowjobs. ;)
Male, >50 years, Married, WI, US | Dec 28, 2011
Male, >50 years, Married, WI, US | Dec 28, 2011
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I wouldn't change anything about you because you are the one for me. We are meant for
Each other
Each other
This is a tough one I do love him just the way he is but we can always improve I do want him to be healthier and he is working on that....I would like it if he were a little more considerate and thought of things sometimes from my perspective I would like it if he were a little more giving and not so rigid i wold also like it if we did projects around the house together and worked at changing our environment together if we made plans to accomplish things
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Smoking
Funny how a lot of answers to this question were "NOTHING. They're perfect." I'm sure there must be SOMETHING you would like to change. It doesn't mean you love the person any less.
As for my wife, I wish she would pick up a little more often and not let our three year old get away with not picking up.
As for my wife, I wish she would pick up a little more often and not let our three year old get away with not picking up.
She and I have a tendency to disagree on what "dressing nice" means. Also, she's a little afraid to "dress nice", even when the occasion calls for it. That's what I would change if I could. :-)
Maybe I should add a skirt a week to my New Year's resolution? ;)
Female, 41-50 years, Dating, CA, US | Dec 28, 2011
Female, 41-50 years, Dating, CA, US | Dec 28, 2011
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If I wanted her to to change something, I wouldn't tell her what it was over an app.
