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If you could change one thing about your partner, what would it be?
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Nothing she's perfect the way she is. That's why I love her so much
I would change the way he thinks about certain things, or how he analyzes them. Just to make him understand better. Not only what I think but how I feel and what I go through.
I wish she didn't have her joint problems, so she wouldn't have to deal with all the pain and frustration they've caused her.
I do love my partner for who they are and much has changed since we first met. The walls have come way down. If there was one thing to change, it would be the few fossils of the past that inhibit embracing things with me fully. In time I know that we will embrace everything we come across. Love her like no other. The best thing ever in my life!
Which few fossils am I still hanging onto? I ask because I want to let them go, I swear... I want to embrace everything fully with you, you are the best surprise I have ever gotten in my lifetime.
Female, >50 years, Engaged, CA, US | Dec 28, 2011
Female, >50 years, Engaged, CA, US | Dec 28, 2011
Just some of the trust factors and stuff we've already talked about. Nothing news to you.
Male, >50 years, Engaged, CA, US | Dec 28, 2011
Male, >50 years, Engaged, CA, US | Dec 28, 2011
Ahhh, yes, that will just take time. More time trusting you and knowing you are true to me/us, those will diminish too.
Female, >50 years, Engaged, CA, US | Dec 28, 2011
Female, >50 years, Engaged, CA, US | Dec 28, 2011
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Her husband is too chubby!
She was a little more adventurous, and not afraid of so many fun activities.
Even though I say things like crankiness and whatnot at times, I don't want you to change...I love you, just the way you are.
Nothing. I love him just the way he is!!!!!
She would be more romantic and look for ways to "think outside of the box" about our relationship.
I would change his distance from me physically speaking. We don't live close to each other, but besides that...I wouldn't change a thing!
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Nothing she's perfect the way she is that's why I'm with her
I believe in accepting one that you love for who they truly are BUT, if there was one thing, it would be the ability to unplug a bit better and put down the technology. Especially in the car. He is much better than he used to be but being more present in the moment (again, mostly in the car). Otherwise, he is perfect for me. We are truly best friends and so much the same in so many important ways.
I will work on that. We definitely have more ways to stay connected 24x7 than ever and I guess I always want to be on the cutting edge of the "Next Thing". Work in progress
Male, >50 years, Engaged, CA, US | Dec 28, 2011
Male, >50 years, Engaged, CA, US | Dec 28, 2011
I know... and I like us finding more ways to stay connected 24/7. It is so helpful!
Female, >50 years, Engaged, CA, US | Dec 28, 2011
Female, >50 years, Engaged, CA, US | Dec 28, 2011
indeed
Male, >50 years, Engaged, CA, US | Dec 28, 2011
Male, >50 years, Engaged, CA, US | Dec 28, 2011
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I like her just the way she is... Don't fix it if it ain't broke!
I would change the way he see's himself and let him see the way I see him
