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Do you enjoy cuddling?
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What used to be exciting in your relationship that is now humdrum and normal?
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We used to drive around late at night any day of the week looking for places to "cuddle" and now we pretty much only do that in our bed. And we don't really go out anymore because of our daughter so there are no more exciting dates unless we can get somebody to watch her which is rare.
I can't think of anything except maybe the weekends. Kirk brings life to our household when he is in a great mood.
His excitement for me. I used to feel like he was so proud to be with me, and interested in me... and now I just feel like a mundane fixture in his life, lumped in with everything else. I miss the feeling of being desired; the sexy texts, the pillow talk, the little things that remind you you're still intriguing to your partner, like seeing a picture of me on his phone or computer screen instead of a model or our son.
Greeting each other with a kiss and hug at the door when we got home. Now, we just continue on with what we're doing.
Our alone time, just seems to be less and less
nothing really we keep everything fresh and fun, although more sex would be epic !!!!!
He used to always put his hand on my leg when he was driving, doesn't happen so much anymore.
Everyday is exciting!!!
i dont know
Gosh, we have been together for 10 years and there is NOTHING humdrum about our relationship. I would like to have MORE sex though....like we used to....like bunnies :)
Hmm I'm not sure. We try to make everything we do exciting in the relationship
getting into the bed..
Lol going to bed now my fiancé just passes out.
staying in and watching tv. its not necessarily humdrum, but we are definitely eager to see this beautiful state!
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