Icebreakers
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In what simple ways would you like to see your partner grow in the next year? How do you want to grow yourself?
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Opening herself up to me some more.. With me being more serious when it's necessary
In the next year, I hope to open up more and be more vulnerable. I think i could trust her more. For her: to challenge herself to create her own life and be happy and fulfilled completely
I would prefer for most people not to grow out because Americans are like exremely overweight and it's unhealthy and grotesque. It can't feel good to be that fat. Do I want to continue rapid weight gain? I think not. Please everyone, let's eat healthier this year. Let's get rid of these elastic waistbands. We're all going to get diabetes if we keep at it.
I want him to be able to control his aggression. I hope he starts boxing back up. He was so good and one injury set him out for a few weeks. I want us to strengthen as a couple and be more romantic.
I want us both to grow closer
He's grown up so much in the past 3 years, he knows who he wants to spend the rest of his life with! (me) :D He knows not to hurt me anymore in any way cuz I told him this is his last chance to fix it and he has:) I'm so proud of him. And for me I want to be able to trust him without having to worry about him hurting me but the trust is growing stronger everyday<3
I want to become more mature, as for her; I don't want her to change at all <3
Wanna see both of us successful
I would like to see her grow emotionally. Learn to express herself better in love and communicate. I would like to become better at reading her and giving her whatever her mood demands at any given point in time. Also I would like for both of us to grow professionally, that we may be happy in our professional life as well.
I want him to be more resolute. So am I.
More confidence in her body and learning it's ok to be alone. For myself I need to work on honesty, motivation and letting go of fear.
Working a job she is passionate about.....I want to be the best wife and mother I can be to my family
I would like to c him get the raise he deserves and see us buying our own home after I'm done with school
I want him to be able to control his anger. I want to be able to not worry about moeny.
I want her to feel happily settled into our new home once we find it, and get a solid foundation for her career. I kno the change of scenery might be stressful and I just want her to be happy and comfortable
